
A Deep Connection Between Valerie Bertinelli and Taylor Swift's "Eldest Daughter"
Actress Valerie Bertinelli recently shared a heartfelt connection to Taylor Swift’s new song, “Eldest Daughter,” from her latest album, The Life of a Showgirl. The track, released on October 3, resonated deeply with Bertinelli, who took to her Instagram account on October 5 to share a nostalgic montage of her life. The post featured photos and videos that spanned her childhood through to the present day, accompanied by the song.
Bertinelli, who gained fame at just 15 years old as Barbara Cooper Royer in One Day at a Time, used the post to reflect on her personal journey. She highlighted how the song speaks to the experience of being an eldest daughter, addressing themes of heartbreak, online negativity, and the importance of being there for loved ones regardless of the situation.
In the caption, Bertinelli mentioned that she is the eldest daughter in a family of five. She expressed gratitude to Taylor Swift for writing the song, stating, “I’ve had this song on a loop since first hearing it. As an eldest daughter, thank you @taylorswift for writing it.” While many fans believe the song is about Swift’s fiancé, NFL player Travis Kelce, Bertinelli chose to interpret it as a love song to her inner child.
“I like to look at it as a love song to my inner child and how I just won’t abandon her any longer,” she said. “It’s my job to keep her safe and I can do that now.”
Bertinelli also referenced her upcoming memoir, Getting Naked, which will be released in March 2026. She explained that the song encapsulates the themes she writes about in her book, emphasizing healing and self-acceptance. “Healing is there for all of us and I’m hoping my book will help you heal a little bit,” she added in the caption.
Fan Reactions Highlight Emotional Impact
Fans responded positively to Bertinelli’s post, sharing their own experiences as eldest daughters. One fan wrote, “As an eldest daughter I agree,” while another commented, “Yes, to the inner child in each of us not to be lost or forgotten.” Another user shared, “I am an eldest daughter - like you the ONLY daughter with three brothers. I will eventually hug myself, life doesn’t stop.”
Some comments reflected a deeper emotional connection to Bertinelli’s message. One social media user noted that Bertinelli’s late ex-husband, Eddie Van Halen, passed away on October 6, 2020, at the age of 65. He was the father of her only child, Wolfgang Van Halen. The commenter wrote, “Listened to the album when it dropped Friday/this song is beautiful - as are you. Sharing your family photos and being vulnerable is what makes your fans love you so much!! Will be thinking of you and Wolf especially 10/6.”
Reflections on Family and Healing
Bertinelli’s post not only showcased her personal journey but also sparked conversations about the importance of embracing one’s inner child and finding strength in vulnerability. Her openness about her experiences, combined with her connection to Swift’s music, created a powerful moment of reflection for her followers.
Through her Instagram post, Bertinelli demonstrated how art—whether through music or storytelling—can serve as a bridge between personal struggles and collective healing. Her message resonated with many, offering a reminder that healing is possible, and that every individual has the power to protect and nurture their inner self.
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